BORING MARRIAGE, WHAT DO I DO?

My husband and I were at the brinks of divorce a few months ago. We decided to reconicile. For the first two months, everything was like, oh my God, wonderful. We were spontaneous, intimate far more than we've EVER been, and everything was done as a team. However, now for these last few weeks again, it seems like it's once again slowly getting back to things just being insufferably boring. He said he didn't feel well today. My plan?? Spoil him, put shrimp scampi on, a mage, put the baby to sleep early, and just have an all out date night in the house, candles, the works. What does he do, FALL ASLEEP..I never got the chance to implement ANYTHING. Neither of us are working at the time, and although I"m always busy, when I come home at night, I look forward to being with him like how we used to do. There's no real excuse to be this tired SO early (well ten pm) He does help out with our son and he does communicate sometimes. The last thing he said was for me to be patient. And even though we're both grown, I feel like age is starting to become a factor because I'm 14 years his junior. Any suggestions??