Can a woman be married and have a encounter?

You need to stay away from her unless you are a or biual like her. I can't help but wonder if her plans are for you to become her love slave. Apparently things are not good at home for her. The whole thing is wierd. If you are confused, I'd say that would be what I'd expect for your age. However, she is manlipulating you....get away from her. She has control issues.